Let me explain something very basic to you. Take your hand off your cock and listen: I don't want you to orgasm. I want you to hurt. I want you to want me in ways you never dreamed possible. I want you to stroke but never errupt, caught in a hell of blue balls. This delights and excites me so much that you cannot deny the joy in my voice. I want you to stare longingly into my face as you dutifully stroke, then stop.. leaving the cock twitching and cum abandoned.